
Acetobacter is aerobic and thrives in oxygenated environments. Since I don't heat my vinegar, I've seen that even a small inch air gap in a closed bottle is enough oxygen for mother to grow.
I started multiple batches three weeks ago and now they have transformed to proper mouth puckering vinegar. You can see below the mother separated in two layers- this was when I disturbed her too much. I've seen industrial mothers that are many inches thick but the home grown mother rarely gets thicker than a centimeter before peeling off.
One can eat the mother as it's purportedly good for your digestive health- it's chewy and slightly sweet and you can dip it in sugar and also dry it into a candy. But it's better you can share to get someone else started on the craft of vinegar making.
My first batch ever, I made a sweet rum wash with carob syrup and hid it in a dark warm corner- both leftover ingredients in my pantry that didn't really have any useful life. The tangy taste of this particular set has a deeper richness and complexity due to the minerals in the carob syrup. Carob vinegar is common in Cyrpus but I haven't seen an easy supply in the bay area so I'm curious how this compares.